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Questions about me and/or my web site...
(Be sure to see the "About Me" page first!)


Do you have any other sites?

How often do you update your site?

How will any purchases made from your web site appear on my bank statement?

Do you do make custom videos or photo sets?

Do you operate your web site full-time, for a living?

Do any of your children/other family members/friends/neighbors/coworkers/etc. know about your amateur sites or pro video work? Aren't you worried about that?

What made you and Steve decide to start your own web sites and how did you begin?

Are you and Steve into the cuckold or "wimp husband" scene?

Do you and Steve meet with other couples for "play"?

Do most of your sexual adventures happen on-camera or do most occur off-camera?

What is it about interracial sex that turns you on?

Have you always been attracted to black men, even before you started swinging?

Which is better: sex with black men or sex with white men?

What is it about sex with young guys that turns you on, and how young do you like them?

Have you always been attracted to younger guys, even before you started swinging?

Are you sexually attracted solely to dark, well-hung black men and young, college-age white guys...or do other guys have a chance with you, too?

What age was the oldest guy you've been with?

Is it true that you are a true "size queen"? What's the biggest cock you've ever experienced?

Have you ever been in a gang bang and if so, do you enjoy them?

Do you host web cam shows for your members?

Can I be in a video or photo shoot with you?

Do you ever travel for sex?

If I make a video with you, do I have to show my face?

Can I watch one of your photo or video shoots without being in it?

Is it true that you had breast augmentation surgery? If so, when and why?


Questions about my videos (DVD and VHS), including shipping questions...


Do you offer your members a discount on your videos?

How will any purchases made from your web sites appear on my bank statement?

How are your videos shipped?

Are your videos packaged discreetly?

Do you ship outside of the U.S.?

How long will it take to receive my order?

If I order from you, will I automatically be placed on your mailing list?

How often do you release new videos?

How can I stay informed of your new releases?

Do you make custom videos/photos or take special requests?

Can I be in a video or photo shoot with you?

Can I watch one of your photo or video shoots without being in it?

Questions about my DVDs...

Are your videos available on DVD?

Are the DVD versions of your videos the same as the VHS versions, or do they have extra features?

Which of your video titles are available on DVD?



Do you offer your members a discount on your videos?

Yes, I do. All members receive 20% off the regular, non-member price on all individual video titles. The Store inside the members area is set up to automatically charge the members-only discounted price when a title is ordered.

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How are your videos shipped?

Orders for delivery in the US are shipped via US Priority Mail. I use US Postal Service rather than UPS or Fed Ex because UPS and Fed Ex will not deliver to post office boxes and, for reasons of privacy, many people prefer to receive adult materials at a PO box rather than their home or place of work. Orders are generally shipped within 1-2 work days of being placed, and delivery time is typically 2-3 business days after shipment.

All foreign orders are shipped via International First Class Mail, and delivery time varies from one country to another.

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Are your videos packaged discreetly?

Yes, very much so. As married woman with a family and nosey neighbors myself, I understand the need for discretion and your personal privacy is very important to me. As such, all items purcahsed from my store are packaged in plain white or brown shipping containers (either envelopes or boxes, as appropriate to the order). There is no mention of my name or my web site on the shipping label, nor is there is anything even remotely "adult" about the packaging. Even the tapes and DVDs themselves have only plain white labels with the catalog number of the video on them - there are NO titles and NO pictures on them, nor any explicit wording of any kind.

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Do you ship outside of the US?

Yes, I ship my videos all over the world regularly. However, YOU are responsible for knowing the laws in your country. Any orders that are restricted by your country will NOT be refunded. If you'd like to know if I've successfully shipped orders to your country in the past, please feel free to ask.

Finally, for those living in Europe, note that my videos are available in PAL or SECAM format at no extra charge,so you may watch them no matter where in the world you happen to live!

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How long will it take to receive my order?

Priority Mail orders are generally shipped within 1-2 work days of being placed, and delivery time is typically 2-3 business days after being shipped. However, note that there is no guaranteed delivery time frame for Priority Mail and it may occasionally take a bit longer.

All foreign orders are shipped via US International First Class Mail, and delivery time varies from one country to another.

For reasons of privacy, shipping notices are not sent via e-mail but you may inquire about the status of your order at any time.

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If I order from you, will I automatically be placed on your mailing list?

No, you will not. Your privacy is a primary concern for me, and I don't take the liberty of assuming that you want unsolicited e-mail. (I do not produce any form of paper/postal mailings.) If you want to be on my mailing list in order to be informed of new releases, etc., you'll have to sign up for it here on my site.

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How often do you release new videos?

I don't really have a "schedule" for new releases because this is not how I make my living. My videos are nothing more than me sharing a small part of the "extracurricular" fun that Steve and I have in our real lives... and, of course, not everybody we meet with is willing to be in a video. There may be times when I release a new one every 6-8 weeks and there may be times when it takes several months to release a new one.

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How can I stay informed of your new releases?

By either subscribing to my mailing list, in which case you'll be notified via email on the same day that something new comes out...or by checking my site often. Note that my mailing list is an e-mail list only...I do not produce any paper/postal mailings of any kind.

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Do you do make custom videos or photo sets?

As of late 2010, I am finally able to accomodate select custom video or photo requests on a limited basis.

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Can I watch one of your photo or video shoots without being in it?

It's possible, in rare cases, if the guys or gals I'm shooting with are OK with it...however, only for a fee, NOT for free. In essence , you would be "sponsoring" a shoot, paying all costs involved, for the privilege of living out your fantasy of watching a live shoot. For basic information, just click here to email Steve & I and we will get back to you.

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Can I be in a video or photo shoot with you?

It's possible! I'm always looking for attractive guys, gals or couples to join me on camera. It's a lot of fun, but there's more to it than just "fun" alone. Here's what you need to know...

Age: You must be at least 18 years of age and be able to prove it with two forms of ID, at least one of which must be a government-issued photo ID such as a drivers license, passport, military ID card, etc.

Location: You must be in the Washington, DC area, either as a resident or visitor. We already have to travel to DC ourselves - we will not travel to your area.

Appearance: It goes without saying that the more fit and hung you are, the more photogenic you will be and the more likely that you will be invited to particpate in a shoot. I also prefer younger men as they are able to perform better sexually.

Test Shoot: Due to the amount of time we have wasted in the past on guys who show up to shoot but are unable to achieve or maintain an erection on camera, or who get hard but are either unable to ejaculate or ejaculate too soon, or who have personalities thats simply do not "click" with ours, we now require a test shoot in order to determine your suitability for further shooting. These test shoots are safe-sex, non-penetrative shoots only, such as handjobs, footjobs, etc. Only after successful completion of a safe-sex test shoot can you be considered for a more hardcore shoot involving oral, vaginal or anal contact and/or penetration - no exceptions! Also, note that completing a test shoot does not mean you will be automatically qualified for a hardcore shoot. If I am not attracted to you enough to have actual sex with you, or if the three of our personalities don't mesh, you will not be invited back.

STD Testing: STD testing is not required for test shoots or intentionally safe-sex shoots such as handjobs, footjobs, tit-fucking, etc. However, if you sucessfully complete a test shoot and are invited back for a another shoot in which any vaginal or oral contact and/or penetration is involved, you will be required to show clean results from a new DNA-level test for HIV and other STDs. Note that we will gladly pay for your testing if you are selected for a hardcore shoot. Also note that we require a very specific test from a specific testing service - you will NOT be able to use your own doctor. We will provide you with all the pertinent details after completion of your test shoot, assuming that we invite you back for a hardcore shoot and you are interested.

Model Release: You will be required to sign a model release and provide two forms of ID, one of which must be a government-issued photo ID such as a drivers license, passport, military ID, etc. This is required by US Code, Title 18, Part I, Chapter 110, Section 2257, which is the federal law governing the production of adult videos and photos.

Purpose: Finally, you must understand that any and all photo or video content produced will be done so expressly for my web site, not just for your personal use. You will, however, receive a free personal copy of any video or photos we may shoot together.

If you've read and understand the above information and are serious about being in a shoot with me, please click here to send Steve and I an email which includes ALL of the following:

  • Your name.
  • Your age.
  • Your height/weight.
  • A recent, clear face photo of yourself, looking straight at the camera, with NO SUNGLASSES OR HATS! Your ENTIRE face and head must be CLEARLY shown. Period.
  • Your home location.
  • When you are or will be available in the DC area.
  • Your contact cell phone number for texting.
  • What kind of test shoot you are interested in doing - handjob, tit-fucking, foot-job, etc. Be specific!
Consider this "Phase 1" of the application process. Once we have received ALL of this information we will get back to you ASAP. Incomplete/incorrectly submitted applications are immediately deleted upon receipt; we do not babysit. If you are selected based on your photos and initial application, you will then move to Phase 2 of the process (which will require current/clear fully body nude photos, among other things).

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If I make a video or photo layout with you, do I have to show my face?

Not necessarily. For certain types of shoots such as facials, handjobs and footjobs, guys only need to be filmed or photographed from the waist down. On the other hand, if the subject nature of the shoot naturally requires head shots - anything involving kissing or any other type of oral contact - then you must be willing to show your face. I no longer block/blur faces or allow guys to wear masks, as this looks distracting (at best) or silly (at worst) in the resulting photos and videos.

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Are your videos available on DVD?

As of April 2003, all new video releases are available on DVD. Steve and I are also gradually going back through my older VHS-only titles and converting them to DVD as well until every title is eventually available in DVD. VHS is being phased out entirely.

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Are the DVD versions of your videos the same as the VHS versions, or do they have extra features?

The DVD versions of my videos all feature a freshly remastered picture and sound, a "Bonus" section consisting of a photo gallery taken from the shoot, trailers from other titles, and an animated menu for accessing the Main Feature, the Bonus Material and the Previews of other titles.

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Which of your video titles are available on DVD?

I've made this very easy to figure out. When browsing through the Store and shopping for videos, you'll see buttons labeled "Buy This Title On DVD" if it is available on DVD and/or "Buy This Title On VHS" if it is available on VHS. If there is no button for buying a particular title on DVD, then that title is not yet available on DVD. It's that simple!

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Do you have any other sites?

Yes, I do...I also have a site dedicated exclusively to foot, leg, hosiery and shoe fetishes. It's called Janet Mason's Foot Tease and you can find it here. It was online from 1998 to 2005 and, in late 2009, I relaunched it due to popular demand. The site does feature full nudity but focuses primarily on my lower extremities; it does not feature any hardcore, penetrative sex. Basically, if it doesn't involve feet, legs, hoisery or shoes, you won't find it there...the site is truly for the many, many "foot & leg men" out there.

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How often do you update your site?

Once a week and sometimes more often, depending on my real-world workload and personal schedule.

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How will any purchases made from your web sites appear on my bank statement?

Very discreetly.

For site memberships, the charge will appear as "CCBill", along with the company's toll-free customer service number. For purchases from my online Store (DVDs, autographed photos, etc.), the charge will appear as "JDM Enterprises" along with their toll-free customer service number. There will not be a reference to my name, my sites, my videos or anything else even remotely "adult" in the case of either billing company.

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Do you do operate your web site full-time, for a living?

We could, but we choose not to as we don't want it to ever think of it as a "job". As a true exhibitionist at heart who's also into kinky sex, sharing this part of our life online with others is a real thrill for me, and I enjoy every minute of it. I think that being in a position where I did this for a living would make it get old and boring pretty quickly and, to me, sex is just way too much fun to be ruined in that way.

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Do any of your children/other family members/friends/neighbors/coworkers/etc. know about your amateur sites or pro video work? Aren't you worried about that?

First let me say this is an issue which Steve and I thought about and planned for well in advance of making the decision to launch our own adult web site way back in the late 90's...and we revisited the subject 10 years later, when I considered doing pro video work on the side, which would obviously increase my exposure to the public by a wide margin. Sharing our chosen sexual lifestyle online wasn't just some thoughtless, impulsive lark...it was a carefully considered decision and we were well aware of the risks involved at the time we made it. At this point in time, over a decade later, it's no longer an issue for us, as will be made clear below. But first, a little background.

Most of the people we know and associate with in our daily lives - our family members, friends, employees, etc. - are very "mainstream". We fully respect that and we love them for who they are. Although Steve and I are also very "regular" people in our day-to-day lives, we obviously have a very unconventional view of sexuality. We're fully cognizant of the fact that our sexual lifestyle isn't for everybody. As such, we don't discuss it indiscreetly with "just anyone", nor do we try to "recruit" others into it. Our motto is "Each to his own". We find nothing wrong with what we do...and if we did, we wouldn't do it.

Simply put, Steve and I have always lived our lives as we see fit for ourselves, within the context of the law, just as we expect others to do with their own lives. We don't push our unconventional views about anything as personal as sex between mutually consenting adults on others, nor do we allow others to push their views about such personal subjects on us, either...try as some people may. As long as what we do is legal - and make no mistake, it is legal - then anybody who has a personal problem with what we do has just that...a personal problem, which is not our problem. Who they are (or, rather, who they think they are) is completely irrelevant. We're adults, we make our own decisions...and that's that.

Those who know us well already expect that kind of fiercely independent reaction from us in regard to any topic at all. Steve and I are and always have been very much "our own people" and don't need the same kind of widespread approval from the crowd that most people seem to need. Yet out of common decency and respect for others, we only share our nontraditional views on sexuality with like-minded people who deliberately choose to participate, whether actively or vicariously, in the same lifestyle we enjoy ourselves. In other words, since we don't go around telling people about our sex life (and, really...who does?), we therefore likewise do not go around telling people that we have an adult web site or that I have done some pro adult video work. We neither hide it nor advertise it.

On another note, we find it necessary to add that, contrary to "common wisdom", no one on this planet we call Earth "accidentally" surfs into adult web sites (come on, people, that's right up there with the cat eating the homework)...ergo anyone who finds our sites is going well out of is or her way to deliberately view explicit adult content anyway. That being the case, what are people we know going to say if they find our site? That they were looking for adult content and that's OK...but we provided what they wanted and that's wrong? Not to us, they won't, make no mistake.

That being said...yes, many of of our non-swinging friends, our neighbors and, as of early 2009, all of our family members, including our children, are in fact aware of our web site, my pro video work and, by extension, our off-camera lifestyle, too. After we were confronted the first time by a relative, we made it a point to then tell our kids (all of whom were old enough and emotionally mature enough to handle it by that point) so as to preclude them finding out from someone else with less-than-good intentions. Rather than provide a long and totally pointless "laundry list" of how we told each key person and/or how each person reacted, I'll just summarize by saying this: our kids handled it exactly as we anticipated and hoped (that is to say, great, after recovering from their initial shock)...and almost everyone else, whether family or neighbors, also reacted exactly as we had predicted they would as individuals. That is to say the overwhelmingly large majority dealt with it like adults and still love us, while a very tiny minority of small, petty, hateful types have not...and we are just fine with that. After all, they already know how independent Steve and I are and they realize that their personal opinions never have nor ever will stop us anyway. We don't associate with people who are petty and hateful or who aren't that flexible and open-minded, so it's really not much of an issue for us. Actually, that's not true...it's really no issue at all for us that a few individuals choose to make it a major issue for themselves.

As for our neigbors, they are a total non-factor as we don't shoot in our primary residence, nor have we ever held a "swing party" there; we maintain an office in another area, we maintain separate shoot condos or apartments no closer than 15 miles from home, and we are about as quiet, clean, discreet and friendly people as anyone could hope to have as neighbors. By far, most of them got over it right away; some could have cared less; funnily, a few were already fans or my pro work and/or members of my site (yet remained discreet about it, so we had no idea at all); and the minority who thought it was any of their business were (and remain) powerless to do anything about it since what we do is 100% legal. As for "co-workers" or "bosses", we don't have any...we own and operate sour own small business and have been self-employed since before we ever went online in the late 90's. (In fact, that freedom and independence is one of the very specific factors that allowed us to launch the web site without the usual concerns that most folks who operate adult web sites have.)

Other parents in the lifestyle who are considering running their own site may be curious as to how we kept our children from finding out until we told them ourselves in 2009 and, since most of the people we know in this lifestyle are parents, I'll elaborate.

As parents, Steve and I were always very open with our kids about many aspects of our lives - far more open and honest than most "straight" parents we know are - but we also were and still are very, very discreet about our sex life, just as any parent we've ever known is. As our kids grew up, we answered their questions on the subject of "the birds and the bees" as they arose and we did so honestly and tactfully, in an age-appropriate manner. Although Steve and I are very affectionate and loving towards each other in front of them by kissing, holding hands, hugging, snuggling on the couch, etc., we are very private about our sex life...just as your own parents probably were, and just as any sensible, caring parents would be. We most certainly do not "swing" with other couples or singles with our children anywhere nearby, nor do we discuss any aspect of our sex life in their presence, even implicitly in coded language. Besides, it isn't as though we swing every day, after all, or that our sexual tastes or the web site form the very epicenter of our lives. Far from it, in fact...both form only a small part of who we are as people.

As for when they were minors surfing the Internet and possibly finding the site, there are two answers to that.

First is that our children did not ever "do as they please" as they grew up...either on the Internet or anywhere else. Any parent who lets his or her child surf the web unsupervised or without strong parental blocking controls in their web browsers that prevent children from accessing sexual or any other form of questionable material comes from a far different world then Steve and I do. Even if we didn't operate an adult web site ourselves, we still would not give our children free, unsupervised or uncensored reign on the Internet and we simply don't understand any parent that would. Above and beyond that, we always had a separate "family" computer" for their use, so there was never a chance of them happening upon incriminating evidence such as photos, e-mails, etc. on a hard drive. The web site has always been run from machines that they do not even know about or have any potential access to - laptops used strictly for the site and nothing else, which were and still are kept locked in safes at our office when not in use.

Second is the common question of "What about when they're older?". Well, as of this revision to this question, many years later, they are older now (young adults) and they know only because we told them. But prior to that, our feeling was that it was to be something to be handled if and when the situation arose. Steve and I made it a point to establish such an open and trusting relationship with our children that we fully expected they would have no problem approaching us directly if they were to discover the site and share their feelings openly and honestly with us. One must also keep in mind that, if they were to have found the site, they would therefore have to have been out looking for this type of material anyway, and therefore they obviously would have an interest in the same subject themselves. Our children were raised to be decent and fair people, as intolerant of hypocrisy as we are...there's no way that they'd tell us that they think that it's OK for them to consume and enjoy adult content but that it's somehow wrong for others to provide the very type of content that they themselves demand to consume just because they happen to personally know the people providing it. Steve and I fully believed that if they did find out about our site later in their lives, we would be able to discuss it openly with them and share our own experiences and precautions honestly with them, and that they would handle it well. That's just the kind of mature, healthy people they were even as youngsters and it's a trait they have not only kept but grown in as they have matured to young adults. That being said, our beliefs turned out to be 100% correct and, although no one was more amazed than us that none of them knew until we told them in 2009, we were not surprised at all by their loving, mature attitudes when we confronted them.

So...as of this revision (early 2009) the entire subject of being "outed" is officially a dead issue, and one which caused us no more than a little minor irritation. We are as grateful for that fact as the (mostly racist and always hypocritical) haters are infuriated by it.

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What made you and Steve decide to start your own web sites and how did you begin?

Steve and I had already been enjoying this lifestyle together for a few years before we went online, and Steve was in the lifestyle as a single man in his younger days. Although we knew lots of single guys who had joined us for threesomes or with Steve just watching and taking pics, we didn't personally know any other married couples our immediate area with similar interests. After a while it became frustrating to keep something we both enjoyed so much all locked up inside without sharing it with anyone we knew. We knew that there were other couples out there who thought and felt as we did about our particular kinks and obviously the Internet was a good place to start looking for them. We started off by posting a few photos here and there in the newsgroups back in 1996/1997...and the response was overwhelmingly positive. As a true exhibitionist at heart, this was very appealing to me. Suddenly we started making all kinds of great new contacts...both single guys and couples. Our idea of "sharing" our sexual kinks on the Internet was working beyond our expectations!

Eventually we were approached by some of our "playtime" friends with the suggestion that we consider starting our own adult web site. They were very experienced swingers and thought that Steve and I would be perfect for it. Steve and I had never thought about this before but the idea intrigued us. Not wishing to make a rash, hasty decision that we'd regret later, we discussed it over a long period of time, carefully considering all the potential risks and benefits involved. Eventually it became clear to us that if anyone we knew was in a position to try starting an amateur adult web site, it was us. After all, we had been married for some time and had always enjoyed a very stable, close relationship; we were both equally into the lifestyle (one of us was not pushing the other into it, which is unfortunately very common); we'd been doing it for quite some time and already had a large collection of photos from our past encounters; we had a large "stable" of single guys to meet with, many of whom had no problem being online and signing the required model releases; I was/am a major exhibitionist and Steve was/is a major voyeur; we were both computer literate and, finally, we werer/are both self-employed and thus neither of us could be fired or harassed if it became known that we ran an adult web site.

Once this all became clear it was then actually me, not Steve, who first decided to try it. I knew that he was just as intrigued with the idea as I was, but Steve's not the type to pressure me in that way and he knew that it would ultimately have to be my decision anyway, since it was my face and body that would be published, not his. I also knew he'd support my decision no matter what it was...just one more reason why I love him!

A turning point had now been reached and it was time to do something about it. The very next day we spoke with an attorney about our idea, contacted an adult web site hosting company and soon began conceiving and designing my first site, Janet's Foot Tease, which we launched in April of 1998. With the fetish site going great, next we started selling videos of our interracial adventures in May of 2000, and the rabid popularity of them led to the launch of this site, Janet Exposed, in May of 2002. Now look where we are...all these years later and we still love it! Going online with our own site is something we've never regretted and it has been very easy to keep it going since we were into this lifestyle before we went online and because it's something we'd continue to enjoy even if we ever closed the site. It's not a "job" for us and that keeps it fun.

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Are you and Steve into the cuckold or "wimp husband" scene?

Though Steve and I are both equally into the "wife-watching" scene - he loves watching me have sex with other men and women, and I love being watched by him in return - when it comes to extending that to the cuckold or "wimp husband" dimension, with the humiliation and such that is at the core of it, then I have to honestly say no, we're not into that aspect of things at all. We know that this subject is a "big thing" for some people, especially when combined with interracial sex, but we are just simply not into it and we make no apologies for that. Neither Steve nor I find the idea of either being humiliated or humiliating someone else to be even slightly erotic. When we try to imagine ourselves in that kind of situation we are turned off, not turned on. We don't have anything against others enjoying it, mind you..."Each to his own" is our motto when it comes to sexual kinks between consenting adults...it's just that we personally can't relate to it in any way. As such, we don't even try to pretend that we do.

For us, the thrill of what we do speaks for itself and does not need any "extra" heavy-duty psychological underpinnings to be tacked onto it. After all, it's already unarguably super-kinky to be able to openly and honestly share with your spouse a taste for what most people would consider to be unmentionably taboo sex. As someone with a strong voyeuristic streak, Steve just loves watching me take on other men and women as much as I, as a major and lifelong exhibitionist, love doing these things in front of him. It makes me feel very spoiled and cherished to be "shared" in such a provocative way. I guess you could say that it makes me feel like a goddess of sorts...very feminine, very loved and very sexy. And over the years, we've found that it actually enhances our marital intimacy rather than detracts from it, as many people who are not into this lifestyle tend to wrongfully assume. Issues of humiliation, insecurity or powerlessness and such are simply not factors for us in this little kink of ours. Steve isn't jealous or insecure and I'm not on a power trip, nor vice-versa. Steve's a very attractive guy, totally heterosexual, well-hung, very trim & physically fit, good in bed and, on top of that, has a great career. That's not exactly the kind of guy who enjoys groveling or feeling worthless...and I wouldn't even date a guy who was like that, anyway, much less marry one. So, again...if you're into that scene, great, and more power to you...we hope you enjoy it to the absolute fullest, as often as possible. But we're not, and that's equally great. As the saying goes, "It's all good!"

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Do you and Steve meet with other couples for "play"?

If you mean off-camera, just for fun, yes...we started off in the lifestyle before launching the web site, after all. I However, we do not meet with inexperienced couples, nor do we "talk a spouse into" trying the lifestyle. That said, if you are an attractive, physically fit, non-smoking couple with some experience in swinging, have similar interests and are interested in meeting us, please do so through one of the two the lifestyle sites we are members of, Swingers Date Club (aka SDC) or Lifestyle Lounge. We do NOT use the web site to meet people off-camera, so be sure to contact us through one of these two sites. Our profile name at both sites is HOTWIFEFORLIFE.

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Do most of your sexual adventures happen on-camera or do most occur off-camera?

By far, most of the fun Steve and I have with others occurs off-camera. There are many reasons for that fact, most of which are firmly rooted in common sense. Here are just a few of them:

  • Not everyone is able to be in a video. For various reasons both personal and professional, some people in highly public professional or social positions obviously cannot risk being exposed in an adult video created for public consumption even though they may want to be in one. Steve and I understand this (who couldn't?) and we fully respect it. Because we don't do this for a living, if a guy in this position is a total hunk and he's great in bed, I'm not going to pass on the fun just because we're not making a video or taking photos for the site! We meet with a wide variety of people from all walks of life and we respect each of them "where they are", so to speak.
  • We don't have a camera with us 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This isn't how I make my living, so why should we? Sometimes it's nice not to have to worry about lugging around heavy (and hot!) lighting equipment, signing model releases, photocopying IDs and all the rest of the kind of mundane chores that video-making or photo-taking involves...and just simply relax and enjoy great sex all day instead. Besides, if Steve isn't filming or photographing the action, that means he gets to join in on the fun...and that means one more hard cock and even more hot cum for me! (Unless he's in the mood to just watch me play, which is always a thrill for both of us in its own way...)
  • Some guys can't "perform" on-camera. Many men fantasize about being in an adult video or photo shoot...but the fact is that, for a large majority of men, as soon as a camera is pointed in their direction they get very nervous and go "limp" on me. Then once the camera is turned off, they get hard again. Since I don't do this for a living, I'm certainly not going to pass on the opportunity to have great sex with a hot stud who is good in bed simply because he can't perform on camera, so that's yet another reason that most of the fun I have is not captured on video or photos for the site. Just like you, I sometimes wish that wasn't the case, but such is life in the real world.
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What is it about interracial sex that turns you on?

One of the things that makes interracial sex especially hot for us is the oft-cited "taboo" nature of it. Granted, when you're married, just the act of having sex with anyone else other than your own spouse is already taboo in and of itself (especially if it's done with your partner's blessings!) but factoring the interracial aspect into that situation jacks up the taboo quotient to a whole new level of intensity for Steve and I as well as many, many other people.

Then there's the visual aspect of interracial sex...that's a huge part of it for both myself and Steve. We are both very artistically inclined, visually-oriented people and the striking contrast between the powerful, dark-skinned bodies of the black men I meet with and my own petite, feminine white body is indescribably erotic to both of us.

Lastly, there's the cock size issue. This is one of those things that people argue about incessantly, but the truth is that most of the arguing is heard from two camps - those who have absolutely no idea what they are talking about, and those who do know better but who have personal insecurity issues or racist agendas they feel they must defend at any cost, including the truth of their own past experience. This applies to both whites and blacks alike, as well as men and women. It's quite sad, really...but I digress. In our many years of combined experience, Steve and I have found a few things to be true in regard to cock size. The first is that despite all the trash-talking you may hear to the contrary, not "all" black men are well-endowed - far from it, in fact. The second is that not "all" white men (or men of any other race, for that matter) are undersized or merely average in their endowment, either. Yet despite these facts, we've still encountered a lot more black men who are extremely well-endowed than we have white men (or men of any other race)...and I mean a whole lot more! (And as a humorous aside, we've found that both black and white men tend to be equal in their tendency to exaggerate their cock size by what is sometimes a truly laughable degree...right after telling you how size doesn't matter, of course! Uh, right, guys...)

Yes, we know there are exceptions. In fact, Steve, with his big dick, is one of them...and that's why I used terms such as "not all" and "most" so very clearly. But this has been our personal experience over the years, and one cannot "argue" or "debate" it...that would be like arguing about how many times we went grocery shopping last month, because you, a total stranger, "know for a fact" that we went either less or more times than we claim. (Don't laugh...we hear this kind of "logic" all the time!)

That being said, since I'm a confirmed size-queen (as discussed at length in a separate question here on this FAQ page), the "big black cock" of stereotypes is a huge and undeniable turn-on for me. In fact, it's actually a bigger turn-on in reality than it was when I used to just fantasize about it before we started swinging. And the bigger his cock, the more this is true. You can read more about that under the question on my preference of cock size.

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Have you always been attracted to black men, even before you started swinging?

If you mean to ask if I ever dated black men in my younger days or prior to marrying Steve, then no. All the guys I dated in my youth were white. Looking back now, however, most of the guys I dated had dark hair, dark eyes, and dark complexions (just like Steve does)...so I think the whole "dark" appearance thing has always been there for me in some form or another regarding men. I never had any trouble making friends with black guys in high school or college, but believe it or not, not one of them ever once asked me out or made any advances toward me...it was always purely platonic, casual friendships. (Hard to believe, I know!) I did have a white girlfriend in school that dated and slept with black guys - only dark-skinned, muscular and, according to her, very well-hung ones - and she loved to tell me all about her sex life with them, and that definitely intrigued me...but I really didn't let go of my fantasies about interracial sex until several years years later, having found a wonderful husband in Steve who has always supported me as a person and encouraged me to be who I truly am.

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What is it about sex with young guys that turns you on, and how young do you like them?

First, let me say that the whole "older women with younger men" topic is definitely another major turn-on for me! I have a serious "thing" for really cute, super clean-cut, "buff" and athletic white or black guys in the 18-25 age range. (Note that I am decidedly not into the backwards-ball-cap-and-untucked-T-shirt-and-baggy-pants-wearing kind of young guys, complete with obligatory "molester mustache" or other laughable facial hair, that hilarious Eminem-style "tough-guy" scowl on their face and that forced, over-the-top negative attitude that is soooo laughably cliché these days.) My first "young stud" experience was with a guy who had just turned 21 the week before we hooked up, and I was 32 at the time. Now in my early 40's, I've had a few young lovers who were just 18 and 19. Interestingly, most of the young guys I've played with have been either lifeguards or personal fitness trainers. (In case you're wondering, no, I am not interested in anyone under the age of 18! Legal age only, please...)

There are several reasons for my attraction to young studs. For one thing, I just love the relentless sexual stamina of guys that age...they can just go and go and go all day and all night, getting hard over and over again, like sexual Energizer bunnies. Secondly, there's the large, powerfully-ejected loads of seed they produce at that age. As a true cum-lover, that alone makes young guys a big turn-on.

While it's obviously true that guys in this age range lack experience and technique in bed when compared to more mature men, my personal experience has been that all their natural energy and their youthful ability to learn very quickly more than makes up for that fact...and in a very brief time. With an older, experienced woman as their guide, they are soon up to par with men far older than themselves in regards to technique...and, of course, nature makes them vastly superior to older men in the sexual stamina department.

I'm a nurturing person, so knowing that I am "teaching" a young man how to please a woman in full while letting him explore things that most girls his own age almost never allow (such as cum-swallowing, ass-worship and anal sex, foot-worship, shooting their cum anywhere they want to on me or in me, etc.) is another part of what turns me on about sex with young guys. It's very exciting for me to indulge an eager, perpetually-erect young hardbody in his fantasies and watch him explore his deepest sexual curiosities.

Still another part of it is that I tend to be rather submissive most of the time with Steve and the majority of my black lovers, who are often much closer to my age. Being with significantly younger guys with far less sexual experience really brings out a surprising dominant/aggressive streak deep inside me (which seems to grow stronger and stronger with age) and this satisfies a certain "something" within me that is hard to express.

Yet another thing is that young guys naturally tend to be in better physical shape, generally speaking, than most guys my age or older, many of whom tend to let themselves go. Steve and I work out ourselves and try very hard to stay fit & trim, and I've always been attracted to extremely energetic, youthful-acting men with lean, fit bodies...especially slim waistlines, hard abs and tight buns. Yummy! :) And God knows there are a ton of young guys who have these assets in spades. Especially at the gym or the beach, where I meet most of my young "harem".

Lastly, it's considered "taboo" and I like that aspect of it as well. In our society, it's "OK" for a man to indulge his lust for youthful flesh with a woman young enough to be his own daughter, but if a woman does the same thing with a guy only 10 years younger than she is, somehow it's "wrong" and scandalous. Please...what a pathetic joke! Of course, this attitude is really just a manifestation of male insecurity and female jealousy, but I won't get into that. ;) Put it this way...how many of you guys, when you were a mere 18 to 22 years old, knew at least one older woman you considered a "MILF" (Mother I'd Love to Fuck) and would have done anything in the world to be pleasured by her - and taught how to please women in return? Pretty much all of you, that's how many. Enough said. :)

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Have you always been attracted to younger guys, even before you started swinging?

No, not at all, actually. The whole "young guys" thing didn't start until I was about 30 or so. Prior to that, I actually preferred guys a few years older than me, as in Steve's case. And if I were not already married, I still would prefer slightly-older guys for a serious, long-term relationship. But this is purely physical, no-strings-attached sex we're discussing. Emotional maturity is not an issue - raw physical attraction is, and for that I like younger men as much as I do older men for full-blown relationships. On the other hand, I was never one of those girls who was into significantly-older guys, like 10 or more years older than me, as many women are...that always seemed too "Daddy-ish" for my tastes.

I think my interest in young studs developed slowly as part of a gradual process over many years and there were several factors that contributed to it. For one thing, I knew that Steve had lost his virginity while in his late teens to a 37 year-old woman. I always found this wildly intriguing. They had a semi-secret affair that lasted over 2 years, and he learned practically everything he knows today about pleasing a woman from her and a few other brief affairs or "one nighters" with other women in their 30s, 40s and even 50s, all before he turned 21...and God knows he's good in bed! I wanted to hear all about these times, and he always said that the sex was unbelievable compared to the sex he experienced with girls or women closer to his own age back then. I knew about this aspect of Steve's sexual history very early on in our relationship, well before we married. On the one hand I felt a twinge of pointless jealousy (hey, I was much younger and less mature then) but on the other hand it kind of excited me to think about a situation like that...a sexy, confident older woman indulging in fleshly pleasures with hunky young hardbody lovers half (or less than half!) her own age. So I guess you could say that was the "seed" that was planted in my mind regarding the subject.

Years later, when I had passed my 30th birthday, was a mother of two children and had been married for several years, I began to notice how many guys in the 18-22 year old range would "check me out" when they thought I wasn't looking, or I'd hear their comments to each other about me when they thought I was out of earshot...you know, that whole "Now there's a MILF (Mother I'd Love To Fuck), buddy!" thing. Now I'm sorry, but any woman who says she wouldn't be flattered by the fact that while being over 30, married and a mother of two or more kids, she could still attract the same kind of hunks she dated and lusted after in high school or college is completely full of it. So I guess that was another part of it...and the thing which made me start thinking again about Steve's experiences in his youth. The rest, as they say, is history! (You can read WHY I'm into younger guys in a separate question above, if you haven't already.)

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Are you sexually attracted solely to dark, well-hung black men and young, college-age white guys...or do other guys have a chance with you, too?

I am attracted to very clean-cut, trim, physically fit, good-looking men regardless of their age or race. And if they have really big cocks, well, that's even more of a bonus. It just so happens that well-hung or powerfully-built black guys, cute young college-age white guys and dark complexions in general (very dark black guys and very tan white men) are definite "triggers" that really get me super-hot, right away, as soon as I see them. But honestly, I lust after men of all ages and complexions as long as they are very clean-cut, super-trim, very physically fit and good-looking. After all, my husband/webmaster/photographer Steve is neither black nor younger than me, and I think he's hot! So if you'd like to meet with us for a video or photo shoot and you fit the "clean-cut, trim, physically fit and good-looking" bill but aren't black or young, don't worry...I'd love to hear from you, too! Just be sure to follow the directions for applying to be in a shoot as detailed in another question here on this FAQ page.

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What age was the oldest guy you've been with?

So far the oldest guy I've been with sexually was a 54 year old white guy...I was 33 at the time. This was a very rare thing for me since I generally prefer guys who are younger than me as sexual partners. But this guy was a true "stud" in every way...a competitive and very serious amateur athlete, he was in excellent shape, very handsome, had a huge cock (about 9 1/2 honest inches long, very thick and with a very prominent, well-defined head on it) and he shot far more cum (and shot it with far more force) than any guy his age I've ever seen before. He loved having me suck his big dick while on my knees, then have me lick his large, smoothly-shaved balls while he jerked off until he shot one of his huge, sticky loads all over my face...and I loved that just as much as he did! He was also very good at eating my asshole...another big turn-on for me and one of my favorite ways to climax. He was, indeed, a truly rare find.

Would I meet with him again - or another similar "older man" - even though I usually prefer young guys? Absolutely! A good-looking guy with a great body and a big cock who is also a good "shooter" is always a welcome treat at any (legal) age...especially when he's as skilled at eating my ass as my own husband is!

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Which is better: sex with black men or sex with white men?

For me it's not a question of "better" or "worse", but rather one of difference. My husband, Steve, is white...and he and I have an awesome, very active sex life apart from our swinging adventures, just as we always have. The sex between us ranges from very intimate to very kinky, depending on our moods at the time. It's very intense for me either way, and of course it's on a much more deeply personal and emotional level than swinging encounters are. That's the way marital sex should be.

In stark contrast, swinging encounters, by their very nature, appeal purely to the physical, animal lusts. There is no real emotional component to them and, if problems are to be avoided, there shouldn't be. They merely provide an opportunity to indulge our kinkiest desires and deepest fantasies that wouldn't be possible in any real-world, day-to-day relationship because there's so much more to marriage than sex alone. For this reason - the opportunity to completely "let go" and indulge my most hedonistic, lusty "inner self" - the sex I have with other men is also extremely intense, but in a completely different way. It's purely physical bliss, not emotional. To compare the two is like comparing apples and oranges, as the saying goes.

All told, it's the balance of things that I like: the taboo of interracial sex, fulfilling my carnal desire to sexually submit to strong, dark-skinned, well-hung and very assertive black men of various ages; the taboo of sex with significantly younger white (or black) lovers, being the dominant one with them and playing the role of "teacher" while indulging my lust for their perpetually-hard cocks and the prodigious amounts of semen that their firm, youthful bodies provide; and the ability to be either tender or kinky with my husband while while maintaining a high level of emotional intimacy, as well as the taboo of living the life of a "shared wife" with his full blessing and encouragement. Now what woman could ask for more than that? :)

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Is it true that you are a true "size queen"? What's the biggest cock you've ever experienced?

Yes, I am definitely what you'd call a "size queen" when it comes to cocks. I simply love them big...and the bigger, the better! My husband Steve has a big dick, and he was the first guy I was ever with who was hung well above average...so I guess you could say he gets full credit or blame for my fetish, depending on your viewpoint.

I can't speak for other women and I wouldn't even try to...but whoever says size doesn't matter is not speaking for me because, in my case, it absolutely does matter. I was instantly hooked on big cocks from the very first time I experienced one many years ago when I met Steve, and I still am today. Just looking at a really big cock is a tremendous thrill and gets me instantly aroused. But it's not just a visual thing for me - it's physical as well. The feeling of being so "filled up", "stretched" and "taken" by a much-larger-than-average cock is one of nearly indescribable pleasure for me and it makes my orgasms both extremely intense and very numerous. It's nothing for me to cum anywhere from 4-7 times in a single session (and sometimes even more) with an exceptionally well-endowed guy...all other things such as looks, stamina and skill in bed being equal, of course.

Many years ago, while Steve and I were still in our dating days, I was totally infatuated with his cock, which is well above average in size. It was the biggest I'd ever seen at that point in my life, with a beautiful, very pronounced head...and it was always as stiff as stone. I used to suck or jack him off 2-3 times a day, it seemed...and that was not including "regular" sex! (True Story: When Steve and I first met, I actually used to masturbate to climax while he just stood naked in front of me and let me stare at his cock and balls flopping around!) When he realized that the size of his cock really got to me in big way and that my obsession with it didn't fade at all over time, he told me that there were some men out there who were hung even larger than he was - far larger, he said. Being so young and inexperienced, I was of course both shocked and intrigued by this. So in order to prove his claim, he sat me down to watch my first-ever adult video...one which had guys in it who were hung like horses. Wow! I was literally drooling while looking at all those big, meaty dicks. I was so hot that I literally could hardly take my eyes off the screen. I think we watched that video at least once or twice a day for a week, at my request! Unsurprisingly, when we later started discussing getting into the swinging lifestyle, we both knew that I had to experience a truly monstrous cock as soon as possible.

We ended up delaying our entry into the lifestyle for several years so that we could concentrate on raising a family first, but my monster-cock fantasy became a reality after we ventured into the swinging lifestyle. In April 1999, we met the horse-hung college stud known as "Mr. Big" in my videos, who has a beautiful, long, thick and dark black cock that is and honest 10" in length and thick, with big, loose balls. And note that this is none of the usual wild, laughable exaggeration of cock size that you hear on many other adult web sites...the proof is all on multiple videos and photos we've made together, which you can find right here on my site. (Including a photo of me "measuring" him with a tape measure that first night!)

Anyway...all I can say is that I will never, ever forget that day. (Note: It's 2013 as I re-read this post and I still masturbate to thoughts of Mr. Big's cock!) The first time I saw that beautiful, huge black cock swinging heavily between Mr. Big's legs, I was literally shaking with lust. I had the "butterflies" feeling in my tummy and my face and chest were flushed with pure animal desire. I couldn't wait to get that huge thing in my hands, my mouth and inside of me! We didn't shoot a video that night (although we did take photos...Steve and I simply weren't making videos yet at that time) but if we had, I'm sure it would have been a great show to watch! I'm only 5'3" and I weighed just 103 lbs at the time, but I took every single inch of that monster black meat, balls-deep, into my pussy the very first time, with absolutely no lubrication! I was sopping wet with pure animal desire, loving every minute of it...and coming again and again and again, loudly, as I worked to get more and more of him inside of me. I thought I'd been "filled" before with Steve and other well-hung men, but this was truly a whole new world. His enormous cock stretched me in ways I'd never felt or even imagined before...and the truth is that it was actually better in real life than in any of my wildest fantasies. (I should note that this was also my first time with a significantly younger man, as well as Mr. Big's first time with a white woman or an older woman - he's 10 1/2 years younger than I am - so it was a special night in more ways than one for both of us!) Steve nearly shot a load all over the carpet, without any physical stimulation, just from watching my reactions as we fucked and sucked all night long...it was all he could do to hold back and keep snapping photos!

Anyway, as of that night I became a certified, hardcore size queen. For me, there is nothing quite like a truly huge cock - which I define as over 8 honest, actual inches, not the usual exaggerated "Internet Inches" - to get my juices flowing, both literally and figuratively. I still tremble with lust, get "butterflies in my stomach" and feel the burning flush of pure animal desire in my face, chest and pussy whenever I'm face-to-face with one or see one in photos or videos.

But on the other hand, that doesn't mean I'm not sexually attracted to guys who aren't hung like horses. If a guy has a great body and/or is very good-looking, or if he's about college age and has that "cute", youthful kind of good looks and a trim build, well, those things really turn me on, too...so if you're not hung like a horse but you are still my type in other ways and you'd like to meet me, don't worry!

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Have you ever been in a gang bang and, if so, do you enjoy them?

Believe it or not, I didn't have my first gang bang until years after Steve and I started swinging. Finally, in April 2003 - in celebration of my 36th birthday - I took on three good-looking, well-hung black men at once in a hotel suite in Las Vegas...and yes, Steve caught every moment on film for posterity.

So...how did I like it? Well, I loved it! Sure, I wished it were a few more than just three guys...and that finally happened in January of 2009, when I took on 8 (yes, I did say 8) very well-hung black studs in L.A. for the Blacks On Blondes web site...and I loved every minute of it! Would I do it again? Heck yes....I can't wait! I'd love to do regular gangbangs as much as possible!

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Do you ever travel for sex?

REVISED April 2013: Now that we are empty-nesters, Steve and I do travel frequently and we usuallly (not always) try to set aside some time for some adult fun. We always announce these trips on the Travels page here on the site, so check that page regularly if you are interested in "playing" with me.

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Is it true that you had breast augmentation surgery? If so, when and why?

Yes, it's true...I had breast augmentation surgery in the winter of 2000. I am now back up to my original, "pre-videos and web sites" size of 32DD, up from my pre-surgery, post-childbirth (but not normal for me) size of 32B.

Before I go into details about this, I want to make it perfectly clear that I did it for myself, not for anyone else, definitely not for my web sites or videos, and that I am completely happy with the results. As such, I neither need nor expect anyone else's approval. I've posted this information here solely for those who are genuinely curious and who comprehend and respect the fact that I, much like anyone else, am totally free to do with my body as I please. So to you hyper-critical nay-sayers out there, note that if you feel compelled beyond the limits of all your self-control to send me negative e-mail about it, you will be wasting your time and energy, not mine, in doing so...and your message will be deleted immediately without even being read in full.

So...why did I do it? As I've mentioned above, what some of you see as my "new" breast size is actually my old breast size...the size I was well before I started making videos or operating web sites. In other words, it's the way my husband, family members, old friends and swinging partners knew me all throughout all of my teenage and adult life right up until the mid-90's. After a period in which I gave birth to two children, breast-fed them both and then began to work out intensely at the gym 5-6 days a week, I gradually lost almost two full cup sizes and I felt a more than a little embarrassed about it. I just couldn't get used to seeing myself with small breasts that continued to grow smaller and smaller by the month as I worked out, and I simply didn't like them. They weren't "me". After all, if a guy lost 2-3 inches of length and an inch of thickness from his cock just from working out or from being a dad, wouldn't he feel more-than-a-little funny about it? You bet he would...and you can also bet he'd replace his lost size in a heartbeat if it required only a simple, safe surgical procedure, no matter how reassuring his wife or girlfriend might be about his loss of size and no matter how well he may know that some women actually prefer smaller penises. (Note to the would-be Einstein's: I know this kind of situation for men isn't possible. It's called a hypothetical analogy. Get over it.)

I should also note that I went to a very good surgeon in order to avoid one of those botched jobs that looks so fake it's laughable. You know the kind...boobs way out on the sides of the rib cage, with 4 inches of breastbone gaping between them as, um, "cleavage". I also went with my original pre-surgery cup size - a far cry from the obscenely huge, cliché "punching bag" look that comes to mind when one thinks of much breast-enlargement surgery. And to reiterate, what you may see as the "new me" is actually, in point of plain fact, the "old me" from the days well before I started running web sites or making videos. Here's a story that illustrates this point perfectly: about 8 weeks after my surgery, Steve and I took an out-of-state trip to visit friends we hadn't seen in 7 years... and they didn't even realize I'd had surgery. They were shocked when we told them, explaining how much size I'd lost from working out over the recent years. That kind of reaction only underscores my point about now looking like the "old" and "real" me.

You can find photos of my pre- and post-surgery looks on my web site. As for videos, all titles with catalog numbers of JV-017 and higher feature my post-surgery look, which means that JV-001 through JV-016 feature my pre-surgery, very small-breasted look.

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Do you host web cam shows for your members?

Yes, I do! At least 4 times per month I host a free 60-minute web cam show for my members. These shows always include full nudity and, after chatting with my fans a bit, I either masturbate to climax or, on occasion, have Steve or some lucky member join me for some cock-milking fun.

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